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Giggles at the Palace
This is a place for all sorts of off-topic discussion.

You can post anon or un-anon, per your personal preference, as usual.

All I ask is that you stay civil and (hopefully) friendly.

If you also want to use this thread to try to find a beta for a fic, or ask a brit-pick-ish question, I think that would be an acceptable use. Have fun!


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Re: Autoerotic asphixiation vs other ways of passing out

My asphyxiation was erotic, but not autoerotic. My partner was behind me, his arm wrapped around my neck. I passed out for about ten seconds, struggling accidentally, and saw the colors, sounds and images as in the rant post. I felt very disoriented afterward, but also very relaxed and obviously aroused.

We've done things differently as well, (the first time was a bit scary for him) with his hand on my throat for thirty minutes or so, blocking my airway. It was a giddy, almost floating sensation, very pleasant but with no blackness or hallucinations. I was almost hyperaware of the act.

I think having someone you trust as a partner is one of the main aspects of my experiences so I acknowledge that others could have a more painful, less fun time. Autoerotically, and perhaps this is all very TMI, I find that a hand around the throat, pressing down on the the spot just below your jaw, works best. I have never experienced blackouts or even been remotely close to one in these situations. I did have one experience with a metal necklace tied to a headboard where I saw darkness on the edges of my vision but again, no blackouts. I think it's difficult to make yourself pass out.

All and all, I think it's rare kink and safety, trust and love makes it to be a comfortable situation for everyone involved.

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